Nothing Is Set in Stone

Dear Dad and Mom, I received your letter today. It just so happens that I've been busy all day, so sitting down to write back to you is actually a nice way to unwind. I had no idea sending and receiving email was such a headache on your end. Let's just stick to writing letters instead. The certificate of deposit for the emergency fund has already matured—I was still in New Jersey when that happened. The bank automatically rolled it over for another ten months, which is fine since I don't anticipate needing that money anytime soon, thanks to the income from my summer job. Speaking of money, a few days ago Weihai borrowed $3,500 from me to use as proof of funds for his financial documents. He's trying to get married so he can bring his fiancée over to the U.S., though I honestly have no clue how he's planning to pull all of that off. It's getting late, so I'd better get some sleep. Tomorrow morning I'm meeting with a professor to discuss the possibility of doing my Ph.D. under his supervision. Nothing is set in stone yet, and I'll continue making plans for a master's degree as well. As for what I mentioned about Robin in my last letter, it's enough for you simply to know about her. Try not to overthink or read too much into it. We're still taking things slowly and seeing where things go. I'm finally beginning to realize that being in a relationship, even at this very early stage, takes a great deal of emotional energy. Sometimes it feels exhausting, and other times it feels wonderful. Wishing you good health! Tong 10/01/96